The True Gentleman

The True Gentleman holds great meaning for brothers in Sigma Alpha Epsilon. It is our Guiding Motto and Creed, and expresses values and ideals that we strive to incorporate into our lives.

The True Gentleman is the man whose conduct proceeds from good will and an acute sense of propriety and whose self-control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others rather than his own; and who appears well in any company; a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe.

- Brother John Walter Wayland (Virginia 1899)